Tuesday, June 8, 2010

wearing too many hats

Lately life has been busy. Too busy.
I have been distracted by many things.

I heard myself saying to the kids several times this week:
"Look, your just going to have to wait a minute."
"I don't have time to talk to you about that right now."
"I want to help you with that but I just can't."

When I start talking like that to the kids, things need to change.
The change that needs to happen is with me.

I realised (once again) that I am wearing too many hats.
I am so good at taking on new hats that I end up like The Cat in the Hat from Dr. Seuss
You know the story. Here is little cat A, B, C, D..... all the way up to Z.
Yep, I had allowed myself to get to the stage where I felt like I was wearing the whole alphabet.

Drastic action was needed and I decided to give myself a day off.
I took off my hats...no friend hat, no cleaning hat, no gym hat, no blogging hat (man was that one hard to take off for the day) and no chef hat.

I decided to just wear my mummy hat for the day.
At first it was hard but then I felt as if a weight was lifted off my shoulders and it felt like a real relief.
My goal for the day was to just hang out at home with the kids.

I found a comfortable spot outside and just chilled. It was great.
The sun was shining and it was just perfect.



I watched the kids playing and enjoyed watching the chickens peck around the place.
I wore my Ugg boots all day. Love my Ugg boots.



The sky was perfect....can you believe it...gotta love living in Queensland.
This really is a picture of the sky!


Just so you would believe me I took a picture of a tree too.


I sat outside and talked with the kids. Really talked with them.
I listened and loved everything they shared.
They have such cute little ideas and ways of expressing themselves.
It was a wonderful day and I loved just wearing my 'Mummy Hat'.
These are moments I cherish and the distractions that come are not worth my time or effort compared to the love and joy I find in my children.

10 comments:

  1. We all go through moments when life gets hectic...wonderful to hear you grabbing the "now" moment.

    "all the things that truly matter — beauty, love, creativity, joy, inner peace — arise from beyond the mind" Eckhart Tolle.

    Thanks for reminding me to do the same.

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  2. I love this. You are so right. Sometimes you just have to decided to JUST BE MUM! It brings a lovley relief.

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  3. I need to do this more often. I'm often "too busy" to do what my kids want me to do, but I realize it's usually just me wearing a less-important hat than my mommy-hat.

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  4. Thanks for your comments ladies...I am trying to 'chill' more but it is such a challenge...so nice to know I am not alone in this challenge :)

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  5. Thanks for the reminder... I was just thinking the other day that the best days I have with my children are the days when I'm not doing anything else but being with them. We can't have those days everyday (we have other responsibilities as parents, no?) but we should take the time for them as often as we can. x

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  6. Beautiful photos. And great post. that's just what we all need sometimes.

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  7. Wearing your mummy hat for the day, I love it. It is something I should try and do more of for sure. Thanks for the idea.

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  8. I can so relate to this. This past couple of months I have only worn my mummy hat and really benefited from it, they have too

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  9. While I am not a mummy, I definitely wear too many hats. Student/Girlfriend/Daughter/Sister/Teacher/Blogger/Woman. But I definitely have learnt the art of planning and organising, something which helps me. Just a little. But there are many times when I drop the balls and it becomes too much and I just lose it, so to speak.

    xx

    ps. Always make time for you too <3

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  10. It's hard isn't it? I try to take some time each day to just be with my kids. Even if we're just cuddled up on the couch watching TV.

    I can't wait to move to the country so we can have some decent outside space to just chill. I hate being stuck indoors all the time.

    Sometimes the kids and I have our best conversations in the car, that is when they're not punching or teasing each other... lol!

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Thank you for your thoughts...Naomi x