motherhood and personal sacrifice

Being a mother requires sacrifice. In many different forms.

We labour consistently day by day trying our best to run our homes and help our children to be educated, confident, self motivated and happy. We work hard to help them be free from trials and challenges and to develop the special gifts and talents they posses.

We love, encourage, praise, teach and help strengthen our children 24 hours a day.

Often at great personal sacrifice.

Since becoming a mother I have struggled with personal sacrifices.
Some of them I was happy to make, others have been hard to give up.

As a young mother my days were spent rushing from one nappy change to another, from one feed to another and from one tantrum to another. I hardly had a moment to sit down.

These were exhausting days.

The demands were physical. Getting down on the floor and getting up from the floor 100 times a day. Carrying children around on my hip all day. Lifting children into highchairs, swings and onto a change table left me feeling worn out and physically spent.

I had to sacrifice my time, my sleep, my eating, my private quiet moments - heck! my private toilet moments and any relaxation time I wanted. Life was full and busy.

During this time my personal sacrifices {although difficult to make} were replaced with treasured cherub moments that took my breath away and made my heart melt.

Sweet sloppy kisses, tiny hands holding mine, a hug from a little one who holds on tight, a loving look right in my eyes, a smile for the first time, a cheeky look that shows personality and babbling talking that runs on for days!

They were all worth it.

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To sacrifice is to give up something valued for the sake of something else regarded as more important or worthy. Personal sacrifice takes it to a new level. It gives it new meaning and commitment.

Motherhood is a sacrifice.

It is important and a worthy pursuit.

The greatest work we ever will do is within our own homes. 

As I reflect back on those early years of rushing and mothering, the memories I have are not of the things I missed out on doing but of the wonderful heartfelt moments that my children gave me. They have been a gift to me, they have helped shape me into who I am today, they have taught me to love, to cherish and to laugh.

The personal sacrifices I made seem so small compared to the blessings I have gained.

I want to share with you a clip from Catherine Arveseth who is an inspiration. She went from being childless ~ to in four years, the mother of five children, including two sets of twins.

Catherine struggled with infertility and on her blog shares how this time in her personal 'wilderness' helped her to see motherhood differently. She also shares some of the complexities, joys and coping strategies that help her live and love her busy life as a mother of five.

Her awesome blog is found here at: Wild and precious and this time lapse video is a must watch.

Ahhh! the memories....

                         

Now onto the linking love. Here at Seven Cherubs we love to promote motherhood.
We love to connect mothers through their hearts.

I love to write about it and encourage other mothers/parents to write about it too!

I love to read and learn what thoughts you have in your hearts and to see how you are going with your cherubs. So join in, link up and take the time to leave some encouraging comments for other awesome mothers out there who are trying to be the best mothers they can be.



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