Monday, December 19, 2011

A Christ Centered Christmas


This time of year we tend to get caught up in the rush and craziness that comes with purchasing presents, attending Christmas get togethers and school concerts or performances. All of these festive activities and pursuits of our time are wonderful and bring happiness to ourselves and others. In doing so we can often forget the reason for the season and the importance of having a Christ centred Christmas, if that is what your faith and tradition involves.

This year I am personally trying to put Christ back into Christmas a little more in our home. I am not one to force religion or my faith on others but I do love to share some of the faith filled activities we participate in as a family on my blog. After chatting to some Seven Cherubs fans on facebook we collected some ideas to help you keep a Christ centred Christmas in your homes. Some of these tips and suggestions could apply regardless of whether you are religious or not. They are about putting others first and of serving and uplifting families during this special time of year. 

Here are the suggestions below:

Jac - When I was younger Dad would read the Christmas story before we were allowed to open presents. I have also heard that some families choose a present to give to the less fortunate out of the presents they get on Christmas Day.

Amanda - Help the kids make Jesus a birthday present. Just decorate a shoe box and every time they do something that would make Jesus happy they write it down and put it in a box. Then on Christmas morning your read out all of Jesus's presents.

Pippi - We make a cake for Jesus and sing Happy Birthday. This year they are doing a 4-layer carrot cake.

Elizabeth - Make sure you always say Christmas not Xmas.

Rachael - We read The White Stocking poem and the idea is to get a white stocking and to fill it with pieces of paper as gifts to the Saviour that you will work on during the next year.

Kylie: Read the Christmas Story from the Bible and picture book variations up until Christmas. We never use or say Xmas instead of Christmas. We have an advent calendar where each day we have to do something eg. sing a Christmas carol, help someone etc. Acts of service and also read scriptures of Christ's life. Go see the Temple Christmas lights and program they have in Sydney. Display a nativity scene prominently in our home. I have one client who puts up the nativity first and then a week later the rest of the decorations. The nativity is the first one you see when you enter the house.

Gayelene - We do a grocery hamper for an anonymous family. I make the kids come with me to the grocery store to select things for the family that also includes a small gift for each person in that family. I love how considerate and thoughtful my kids have become over the years we have been doing this. We all then deliver it to the local charity that distributes it.

Gabby - We have a fisher price nativity scene, it's the little people's range & very cute. It reminds us & our 4 year old what its all about in a lovely way :)

Veronica - First time I'm making the effort since bub's are big enough - putting out a nativity set and reading kid's version of the Christmas story, talking about St Nicholas and giving as the connection to Santa Claus, getting a gift or two for charity. I'm still making it up as I go along but these are some thoughts.

Mandy -  We're really lucky, our local church role play the first christmas every night the week before Christmas. It is a tradition for us to go down and watch it. They spend the week before building the set, a lot of effort goes into it. Lovely local people putting in a lot of effort to get their message across. I just love that my kids get to know that Christmas is not just about presents.

Diana - I have 24 Christmas stories that I absolutely love. I read one per night to my children in the lead-up to Christmas. You can find them here. Tissues may be needed.

Marie - My girls when they were younger loved doing the Christmas tree gift tags at K Mart and Target. I still do that. We also love attending the Christmas carols by candlelight locally.

Emma - My son's class had a Posada where we each welcomed little Mary & Joseph figures (and their donkey) into our homes for a night on their journey. We lit a candle and read a Christmas story. Each night a different student takes them home. I know it made my children think more about the real meaning of Christmas.

In our family we love to watch these Life of Christ Bible video's together as a family.

I love all of these suggestions and we do many of them in our family as well. 
What do you do as a family to keep a Christ centred Christmas??

16 comments:

  1. When our five were growing up, we did the Secret Santa, sang carols for our neighbours, made home-made gifts for each other, and always attended our Stake Christmas Carol Service and brought non-member friends. We also presented each of those friends with a beautifully wrapped Book of Mormon which also contained a testimony of the Saviour from a family member.
    Our children are now parents, and it became a tradition for my 3 daughters, and 2 daughters-in-love to accompany me to the Church's Christmas Devotional which is broadcast every year.
    We were supposed to attend our chapel tonight, to take part, but it has been cancelled, due to heavy snow, so we'll be watching together, on the internet....bliss!
    Merry Christmas!

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  2. We usually send off "Operation Christmas Child" shoeboxes, organised by our pastors wife. We tend to talk about it being Jesus' birthday party on Christmas day and try to do family centred activites too - last year we opened presents up on Christmas Eve and spent Christmas day at the Dam. We always usually have a 'few strays' joining us during the day - people who dont have family in town, and share our day with them. This is something I learnt in Paraburdoo WA when most people didnt have family in town so we always spent lunch, afternoon and dinner with the other families from church as well.

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  3. I was thinking something similar and wrote a post about it also. http://www.twinkleintheeyeblog.com/2011/12/christmas-want-or-need.html

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  5. Ooops, let's try that again...

    This is one of the main reasons why we don't do Santa in our family :) I really should get around to writing that post...

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  6. We use a different White Stocking poem. It was adapted from The Night Before Christmas by my YW leader.
    http://www.sugardoodle.net/joomla/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=3440&Itemid=5

    This year we have made a lot of hampers for those in need and talking a lot more about Christ and why we have Christmas

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  7. Those are all great ideas! We give items to make a shoebox for kids at a nearby orphanage, we have an advent calendar with a daily scripture, we sing Happy Birthday to Jesus first thing Christmas morning, and many more things.

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  8. Great ideas everyone and love how you are keeping a great focus for Christmas. Hope you have a great week leading up to Christmas. N x

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  9. All great thngs to do, I just remind the kids often how fortunate they are to have a home and food especially at this time of the year and we donate to school hampers for thr local families in need...not so much Jesus focussed for us but giving and sharing :)

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  10. Christmas is know as Jesus Birthday as well as Christmas at our house. we like to encourage both the bible story and the Dutch story of St Nicholas into Christmas in some way. I've also heard lots of people use the Nativity rather than an advent calendar _ moving mary and joseph closer to baby jesus every day. Might try that one next year. (but I'm guess I'll have to include chocolate in some way too?!!?)

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  11. Thanks for including my suggestions. I have been a youth leader for the first time this Christmas so tried to get the girls I am responsible for into the Christmas spirit by going to see an art exhibition on the life of Christ and we are making some meals for a family in our ward whose father has just had heart surgery. They are really keen and all commented about how this was way better than "like receiving stuff and thinking about what you want".

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  12. Oh, and I love that picture. It is one of my favourites.

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  13. what a fantastic set of ideas.

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  14. I'm not religious Naomi, but I think it's beautiful how people embrace their faith at certain times of the year.

    Merry Christmas beautiful xxx

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  15. We aren't religious, for us it's a cultural holiday, but I really resent that people say/write Xmas. I may not celebrate Christmas's real meaning but that's just laziness!

    Merry, merry Christmas Naomi, I hope you and your family have a lovely, festive day.

    I have loved reading your blog this year and am looking forward to continuing in 2012.

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  16. We like to focus on The Christ in Christmas. In the lead up the Christmas day, we have been reading a passage from the Christmas story in the Bible as part of our Advent Calendar. Christmas blessings to your and your family Naomi xx

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