I love to dream big, to set impossible goals and to then work hard to achieve them. I feel incredibly blessed in my life as I have already achieved most of my personal dreams and goals I set for myself. Not too many people can say they are living the dream life they have always wanted but that is how I feel about my life. I am a stay at home mum, who gets to write and to talk about motherhood as much as I want here on my blog. Living the dream here.
I am easily pleased, what can I say!
As most of you know I adore my books and I recently started reading 'Dare, Dream, Do' by Whitney Johnson. According to Whitney, remarkable things happen when you dare to dream. I don't know if I consider my life to be remarkable by any means but I love the lessons I have learned along the way and the crazy person I have become in the process.
I started reading Whitney's book and immediately decided to take a blog break to study it, to devour it and dream a little bigger. I read story after story included in the book of what dreams and goals other women have achieved and pondered deeply over why as women we give up on our dreams and don't even dare to dream at all.
I spent time thinking of new blog goals and projects, I thought of starting a business, I thought of writing books, I thought constantly of starting a project outside of my home and of entering the work force. I let my mind wander over ideas and possibilities that would take me out of my home and away from away my family. As I pondered and wondered and dreamed and tried to dream bigger dreams I ended up having a surprising outcome.
It became clear to me that I am already living my dream, right now, this moment, this day and this year and that I am happy doing so. I have no more real blog goals and dreams, I simply love to write and share and I am happy with small opportunities that come my way. I have learned business skills and I use them in my home and on my blog already. I have a blog where if I want to write a book, I can and I can do it in my own time, my own way and simply sell it as an ebook. I can give it away if I want, I can be in control and I can do it according to how I want.
Basically, I love that I can spend my day how I want, I can develop skills and talents according to my own schedule and can help and serve and fit my desires around my family.
Sure there are parts of my dream life I am living that are not so nice such as all the housework and arguing that can often happen in our home, but being a mother is my dream. It is my chosen career and it is my dream life. I am so, so grateful that I am one and that I can be at home with my cherubs.
I love that each day I can try to be a little better as a mother and that I can keep my mind active with writing. I can build stronger relationships with my cherubs and connect with other women and love my family a little more each day.
I loved reading Whitney's book and for the reminder that I am already living my dream life. I am looking forward to what new opportunities may come my way and to writing more about motherhood in the future.

Wow, Naomi! What an effect this book has had on you. Most impressive. You sound radiantly positive. I hope you enjoy those little opportunities around the corner, whatever form they may take. J x
ReplyDeleteThanks Jane, I really enjoyed reading it and feel happy with the place I am in right now. N x
DeleteNice one Naomi. I'm trying to come to terms with the realisation that I am mean't to be where I am right now, right now. It's nice to see someone cherishing that.
ReplyDeleteCherishing is a great word to describe how I feel right now. I hope you can feel content and peaceful with your own 'right now'. N x
DeleteNaomi, that's so beautiful! I love how you have expressed this! And I very much want to read Dare, Dream, Do now too! Thank you xx
ReplyDeleteThanks Elisa. It has taken a while but I am feeling good with my decisions and life right now. N x
DeleteHow exciting to be living the dream. Congratulations are in order! Motherhood is such a blessing, I don't think enough women really cherish the gift they've been given!
ReplyDeleteBeing a mother is a lovely gift. I don't appreciate it every day as much as I should but I am getting better at doing so. N x
DeleteSo awesome Naomi. Sometimes I feel like my dreams aren't big enough (because you know, I don't want to take over the world or anything, I just want to be 'happy'). Like you though, I recently discovered that I am currently living my dreams and it's beyond wonderful to be here!
ReplyDeleteLove that you feel that way Kelly. It is a wonderful place to be. N x
DeleteI love that you've taken a break and come to the realisation that you're on the right path! It definitely sounds like a book worth reading. I can't wait to read more motherhood posts here on your blog Naomi.
ReplyDeleteIt is a book worth reading and I am looking forward to writing a few more too! N x
DeleteThis is awesome Naomi! I know you have had some tough times, which you have so generously shared with us, and I hope that this realisation helps you feel better about your journey. Nice work!
ReplyDeleteThanks lovely. It sure does. N x
DeleteI loved this post, Naomi.
ReplyDeleteContentment and being thankful for what we already have and the situation we're in, is surely one of the keys to living life beautifully.
Ronnie xo
It sure is Ronnie. I really enjoyed the questions in the book and it helped me to see where I am at and where I want to go. N x
DeleteThank you for the book recommendation. As someone who is actively pursuing their dream it is encouraging to read about someone who is doing it!
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