Sunday, June 17, 2012

a special friendship: meeting Lisa King

At the beginning of the year one of my blog friends, Lisa King, had a tragedy happen in her family. She lost her son and her husband within months of each other. As a mother, wife and blogger my heart ached for her and I felt the need to help out, to do something, to do anything to lighten her burden and the heartache she was feeling.

So I wrote a blog post and set up a fundraising page to see if I could raise some funds to pay for the two headstones for the grave of her son and husband. I felt that with the amount of readers on my blog I could surely raise enough money to cover the cost of that expense and maybe a little more to pay for groceries over the first month of dealing with her loss.


To my absolute shock we had a fundraising miracle and managed to raise $44,700. It was a beautiful heartbreak for Lisa and for me. Not only did we raise enough money for two gorgeous headstones for her sweet cherub and husband but we were able to help Lisa pay off her house! Incredible!


So you can imagine my delight this month when I was able to meet Lisa in person for the first time. Lisa came over to my home and it was a special meeting. It was so lovely to hug her and to talk about our families and life in general. I felt so thankful that I could meet such an inspiring lady and be involved in helping her in such a small way.


We filled my dining table with cherubs and had lunch together. We watched our children interacting together and had a great time talking. We briefly caught up on each other's lives and I was delighted to also meet Lisa's brother and mother. It was such a joyous moment to have them all in our home and to see them happy. We of course had to get together for some pictures of this special meeting and my cherubs had to get a little crazy in the pictures. Typical!  


We then headed off to church together and sadly said our goodbyes until the next time that we can meet. I am constantly in awe of the strength of Lisa and her determination to keep her life running and functioning for her three boys despite the sorrow and challenges she faces. I feel so blessed to know her and hope that I can have the faith and courage that she has one day. Once again I am so thankful to everyone who donated to help Lisa and her family. I still get teary whenever I think about it. I also highly recommend you check out her blog. It is an inspiring read.

9 comments:

  1. It was a highlight of our holiday to meet you and your family Naomi. Thank you for helping to change our lives for the better after all the heartache we have had. We will never be able to thank you enough for making our lives so much easier, and making us realise how many people care.

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  2. So lovely Naomi that you and Lisa got to meet. Those headstones are just beautiful. I think we have all been touched by Lisa's story and also touched by what you started to help her.

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  3. Such a lovely thing you have done for Lisa and her family. I'm happy that you finally got to spend some time with her.
    (PS - you have such a beautiful family!)

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  4. So happy you got to finally meet! Just reading the title of this post made me tear up. You are both beautiful women xxx
    Lizzy

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  5. Gorgeous photos! Especially the one of you both together. Two special women!

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  6. AnonymousJune 18, 2012

    Wow - you are two powerful and dynmaic women. How amazing that you did this without even having met Lisa before. You are the angel in this story.

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  7. How wonderful that you both got to meet. You are both such amazing women for many reasons. I love the photos and how special it would have been to go to church together.
    Susan

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  8. I'm so glad that you finally got to meet our Lisa. I could just imagine the two of you - two amazing women with this very tender connection. I can just see Aaron smiling down on this wonderful angel on earth who helped out his little family so selflessly and generously. xxx

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  9. Getting very teary reading this blog Naomi. I know you didn't do the fundraiser for any other reason than the fact that you are all heart, but it's such an accomplishment. The world is truly more beautiful because you are in it. You inspire me xx

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Thank you for your thoughts...Naomi x