Wednesday, August 15, 2012

writing about depression in a positive way


When I first started a blog and writing my thoughts in a more public way, I really had no idea what I would end up liking to write about. I knew I loved writing about my family and the adventures we get up to, about being a mother and how important I believe that role is but I had no idea that I would love to write about depression in a positive way.

It is absolutely one of my favourite topics to write about. Weird I know! When I wake up in the morning I get excited about the challenge of sharing moments when I felt depressed and how I was able to turn it around to become a lesson or positive moment in my life. I find it really strengthening and empowering to see and feel how much I have grown and changed.

I also love being able to share my experiences so that I can help others, uplift others and inspire them to overcome challenges in their lives. Ever since I went through my cracked and peeling moment I feel as if I have given myself permission to write about it more. I have also been touched that you have encouraged me and supported me in doing so.

Depression is a sad and lonely journey. It can also be a time to really learn about yourself, to know more of what your heart feels and a time of reinventing yourself. Here on my blog I don't want it to be a place where depression is shared as all doom and gloom {which it really can be some days!}, I want it to be a place where having depression is accepted, acknowledged, known to be a real feeling and promoted as being able to be overcome and conquered. I also love to share that just because you have depression it doesn't mean you are a weak person, mentally crazy or a bad mother.

Having different forms of depression during my life has made me strong, able to speak another language in a way, more compassionate towards others and more aware of my own heart and mental health. It has helped me to take care of myself in a way I would never have before and given me a gift to connect to many other women I would never have been able to relate to previously. 

I know for some people dropping by my blog and reading my tag line: inspiring, creating and believing and then seeing that I have depression as a tab on my sidebar it can seem a little confusing. But, depression is part of what makes me who I am and I really believe it needs to be talked about more in a positive acceptable way so that other people do not feel so ashamed of having it.

So I will continue to write about being depressed in a positive way and hope that by sharing how I feel and have felt, that I might be able to touch some hearts, change some lives in a small way and leave a message behind for my cherubs that they had a mother who worked hard to become who she is today and that is it alright to have challenges in life. You are no less a person for doing so.

8 comments:

  1. We need a voice. Thank you. Xxx

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  2. Depression is like having Chron's disease, or asthma or diabetes or any other long term chronic condition. It's not a personality failing or a sign of weakness, it's as much clinical and chemical as any other medical condition.

    So yes, I think you can be positive about depression and I am standing up and cheering for you, I am looking forward to reading more posts about your journey.

    I am "lucky" that I have reactive depression that comes and goes, and seems to be receptive to prayer, long walks and plenty of kindness. I have my moments, but you can live positively with depression.

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  3. Rebecca ButinganAugust 15, 2012

    Thank you Naomi, your writing is like coffee for my soul, it picks me up in the morning and sets my mind up for a great day...loving reading your blogs...xx

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  4. Hi Naomi, we have come along very similar paths with our blogging. I too now talk about coming back from depression and how I am trying to live positively with depression. I will be sharing this story on my Facebook page and hope others connect with it as I have.

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  5. I love your blog. You inspire me! Meredith Orth xox

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  6. I love that you share and that you are so very honest. Keep up the amazing sharing Naomi..x

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  7. Thanks for your support and encouragement ladies xx

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  8. Very inspiring Naomi. We should never feel like we have to apologise or hide the dark places we have been. They are the experiences that make us more compassionate and available to others. I like reading your 'sunny' posts but I connect just as much with your more serious topics x

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Thank you for your thoughts...Naomi x